A series of stories & vignettes about
our lives and experiences living in Karachi
Introduction
I’ve always
liked the address of our home in Karachi:
786 Hilal[1].
It appeals to a sentimental attachment to our faith. The religious significance
of the number ‘786’ seems doubled by the crepuscular name of our street. 786 is,
of course, the numerical equivalent of the Arabic phrase, ‘In the name of Allah,
the Beneficent, the Merciful’, while ‘Hilal’ is the crescent, a symbol of
Islam.
786 Hilal has
been HQ for my family since we came to live in Pakistan in 2001. It’s a gloriously
breezy, somewhat cavernous villa spread out on three floors with a capacious
garden on two levels. After looking at almost 40 houses, I knew when I first walked
into 786 that this would be our home: spacious within and without, light,
unpretentious, surrounded by empty plots, and within walking distance of a tiny
but pretty park. Not to mention a mere 10 minutes from the children’s school.
These stories
are more than just about life at 786 Hilal. It’s the safe base from which we
daily foray out into Karachi
and experience the kaleidoscope of its colours, scents and events. It’s also
where we receive all manner of life enriching guests, human and animal. Barely
a day goes by without something memorable or eventful happening. Given the
recent political unrest that’s an understatement of course. I mean ‘eventful’
on a small scale. Scale has never mattered to me all that much. I see meaning
in the seemingly trivial and humble as well as the grand and epic. Probably
more so for the seemingly insignificant speaks directly to my mind and heart.
These messages may seem simpler and more immediate, but they reverberate
audibly through the concerto of our lives here in Karachi.
From media
coverage and press reports, Karachi
is forever teetering on the brink of implosion. To those who live here, we know
that in spite of everything life goes on. We live on through the turmoil. Needs
does as needs must. Having grown up in Beirut
during the 70’s, civil unrest does not faze me. Which is not to say I am inured
to the daily reminders of life’s fragility, or to the social injustices
suffered by most people, or to the perverse polarization of rich and poor. And
its not just sheer momentum that keeps the wheels turning. I often joke among
friends that living here one is daily given proof of the existence of God, for
where would we all be without the constancy of His mercy raining down upon us
when we have wrought a desert out of civil unrest, inept civic planning, and a
breathtaking inability to think long term or to behave in a way that shows we
understand that the common good is our good.
One word alone
yields proof of a higher divine entity overseeing the torrid affairs of Karachi: traffic. The law
of averages should surely dictate greater numbers of accidents than do occur.
So common are the skin-of-teeth misses that my own fight or flight response has
been dulled, if not switched off.
What makes
living in Karachi
so agreeable, however, are its people and the relationships we’ve forged with them.
I have never found it hard to be moved and touched by the fortitude, patience,
forbearance and generosity of its Karachiites. One could just as well write the
opposite and it would be equally true, of course. Its often a matter of
socio-economic class. But this is what
our experience has been.
Being
congenitally positive, I am inclined to be hopeful and in love with life with a
capital L. I accept human frailty – though in others it is easier to accept
than in oneself, it has to be said. In spite of the myriad off-putting things
one can identify about Karachi’s residents, all around me I see mirrors that
reflect at times my lowly self and at others my nobler self. Its an education
alright!
Karachi comes into a clearer focus when one
visits Pakistan’s other
major cities. Lahore
always strikes me as a place with a clear identity, rooted in history, with
Lahoris unapologetically enjoying their heritage and lifestyle. In short the
city feels ‘bien dans sa peau’, though
perhaps a little too much for its own good. Islamabad’s raison d’etre is government, so
order, practicality and decorum dominate. Dull would be another word that could
justifiably be applied to our lush capital. Pindi, a more natural city, is
almost too far gone but I’ve hardly been there of late so will refrain from
more comment. The nervy, edgy feel to Karachi
is a natural consequence of its patchwork of different communities, Sindhi, Pathan,
Punjabi, immigrant and emigrant, jostling alongside each other. The promise of
a better living if not a daily wage has brought a mind-boggling array of
peoples together in an uneasy modus vivendi.
Karachi is full of contradictions and
frustrations but also it is against this backdrop that our lives here are
filled by moving themes of suffering humanity and noble forbearance and by
events at times sublime, at times ridiculous, but always edifying and humbling.
[1] In fact
the real number of our home is different but equally Islamically significant.
For privacy’s sake I have changed the number and street name.
Muna. What a wonderful, honest, from the heart account. Please keep your blog going. Enjoyed reading every word.
ReplyDeleteMy very best wishes to you and your amazing family.
Shahid.
Aw shucks, Shahid. Shukria bohot bohot! I intend to.
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